It makes me wonder that why do we associate "loneliness" with a negative feeling....At times loneliness serves as a remedy for many complex problems...Only when a person is alone he gets time to rethink about everything he has done in his life...He gets time to analyse his actions and hence gets to know if they were correct or not...the beauty lies in the fact that a person can modify his thoughts very easily after analysing them..Sometimes this happens for good and sometimes it doesnt turn out to be fruitful..
Sometimes people feel highly depressed on being lonely but they for them i would like to say that its an oppurtunity for them to analyse everything related to them..its the best time when we can spend time with ourselves..Concentration is at its peak when we are alone..We should utilise this time istead of wasting it...So instead of worrying about being lonely we should look at the positive aspect of it and enjoy this valuable time with ourselves.. :)
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I haven't met a single person who hates the loneliness you're talking about. The way you're taking it is wrong... everyone LIKES loneliness, everyone HATES rejection.
Ask a school going child who has not even a single friend what IS loneliness. You FEEL lonely when you've no shoulder to share your feelings/emotions with. Ask a person ever betrayed by a close one how awful is REAL loneliness.
Well the loneliness you are talkin about is the one which makes a person feel empty..and dats the actual testing time when he actually sees the truth and analyses the situation...I knw its too painful to feel that rejection but its as beneficial too to learn from it ...And thats what i was talkin about./
Agreed, loneliness helps see the truth but then we (at least I) can't relate it to a positive feeling.
really impressd .....hats off.....